The New Friend - Anxi

 It is such a struggle living with a new friend within yourself! It would be so much easier if its a friendly friend but that's just not the reality! Metaphorically! ....... but maybe, just maybe you can!.  Maybe you can make it friendly by understanding the nature of it... its a matter of time.  Not gonna rule out the possibility! Always try to look at the positive side rather than jumpin before looking at other alternatives.  

Acceptance can sound easy but not really! Easier said than done! But it is possible with lots of support.  Let's open up the mind a little here about support. Support is not about enabling or letting someone to live with false hope or to be dependent on someone or something else other than self... Support is about HOPE. Its about extending that hand to someone who may not be able to see or find the light yet, who maybe drowning in brought daylight or not or who maybe slipping out of life unaware ..... Support is about lighting that another candle for someone else to have hope. To hold on to that rope of hope to a higher power. To God! 

Someone maybe smiling and laughing and wearing all luxury labels on the external but maybe .... just maybe they go home to an empty house, empty dinning room, empty living room, empty bedroom... They maybe crying themselves to sleep every night.  They maybe struggling with pain we know not of, they maybe hurting. They maybe crying in silent and YOU may be the answer to their prayer bridging them to HOPE! Bridging them to themselves! To a higher power may be! You just never know.  With the practise and spreading of kindness and love so loud maybe ... just maybe you can feel that pain that hides behind their smile, behind that many faces that they maybe wearing. Maybe they are looking for HOPE. It really helps to go easy on judgements, on expectations, on stereotyping.  Everyone is going through something! The lesser the energy is put on negatives ... the clearer the vision to love will be!

To love is not only for happy days. Love is also for rainy days.  Call a friend and say hi and check in how they're doing . Don't wait for them to call. Its ok to be the 1st to call. You don't lose anything .. but a friend to gain, a heart will be touch, trust will further blossom... maybe ...just maybe a life will be save! You just never know. As the saying goes... never underestimate the small things.. it maybe small but it may mean the world to another. 💕

Anxi the ANXIETY, is defence mechanism going bonkers!